You’ve got to be in it to win it! (4.14.16)

The very same magic, the very same, Patricia Bokowski, that you used to get your first job, to find a best friend, and to heal what hurt, that even now finishes your sentences, beats your heart, and inspires your dreams, is the exact same “grade” of stuff that can make what you most want today come to pass. 
Point being: You’ve already engaged it. You’ve already commanded it. You’ve already done the impossible… So what’s the big deal about doing it again? 
Oh go on…
  The Universe / You’ve got to be in it to win it!

Read that again☝☝☝

Already ON the dance floor!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

They say β€œopportunity dances with those who are already on the dance floor”

Or, as the lottery people love to tell us, β€œyou have to be in it to win it”.

Either way, you get the idea, you need to be β€œin the game” in order to win and achieve success.

There is no use sitting on the sidelines wishing, hoping and praying!

That your dreams will come true. 

Oh, I suppose that works every once in a while.

But, for most of us, you need to be IN THE GAME.

Getting slammed, pushed, rejected and sidelined pretty much on a daily basis.πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘

Remember, success can’t reach you if you aren’t in the game to win!πŸƒβ€β™€οΈπŸƒβ€β™€οΈπŸƒβ€β™€οΈ

Now, I am no sports enthusiast

But I do know enough about professional players.

And I know that in order for them to gain the success they achieved, they had to have practiced till they bled😩😩😩

Along with many losses as well.

But they always got up!

You stay in the game, even if you feel like you are losing every time. 

Because, eventually you will start to win.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Eventually, little by little.

Maybe not big wins at first but wins.

Little wins will start adding up..and every little win needs to be recognized and celebrated.

Just remember, the road to success can be a long and lonely road.

Bet no one told you that!

Also, you will need the memory of those little wins on the days when there are no wins or even worse, a big loss or rejection!


Stay in the game. πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Work at it daily. 

And never give up!

No matter what anyone says to you!

And trust me, they willπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

I would love to have a conversation with Jeff Bezos and ask him how many times did people tell him to give up?

Don’t give up!!!

From what I’ve experienced on my own journey, which started in 2012, is that being consistent has played a major part in my success.

Granted, I still have a long way to go.

But, I’m pretty freaking proud of myself that I have gotten this far.

I said from the beginning, I want to be internationally successful.

And that’s actually happening.

I have connections/followers from all over the world.

Let me tell you, that has taken a tremendous amount of work.

No small feet!😩😩😩

Here’s the thing, if you quit, I can pretty much guarantee you a success rate of failure at 100%. 

And nobody wants that. πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ

Next time you find yourself doubting your progress, look back to where you started (the only time I ever advise to look back).

So, how far have you come?Life. Embrace it! (4.28.2020)

For me, I can’t believe how far I’ve come.

I’m actually not even the same person from 2012.

That’s what happens when life knocks you on your ass more times than you can count.

Pursuing your dreams and making this happens is hard.

But, not so hard they can’t be achieved with hard work and determination☝☝☝

Ah, you just remembered, you don’t like being like everyone else☝☝☝

Stay in the game and play to win!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!