Patricia Bokowski, there are those who absolutely think all the right thoughts.
Yet if they’re not doing all they can, with what they’ve got, from where they are, then you can just guess what else they’re probably thinking.
And those other thoughts are busy at work, too.
You are my sunshine,
Ever wonder why people feel so helpless sometimes?
In my opinion, it is because they gave up their power!👉👉👉
Not only that, they gave up their power without even realizing it.
And then can’t figure out why they feel so helpless?
And feeling helpless is one of the WORST feelings you can have.👈👈👈
That is the BIG lesson for sure!☝☝☝
Once you realize that, your life changes.👈👈👈
No one scares you anymore!
And let’s be honest.
That’s one of the reasons we feel powerless.
Because we feel someone OR something is more powerful than us!👈👈👈
We either let the person, or the situation, become BIGGER than us.
When in reality, you still have the power.
If this is you, it is time to regain YOUR power.👈👈👈
“Be brave and fearless to know that even if you do
make a wrong decision, you’re making it for a good reason.”
Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸
aka fROG cONSULTANT
I’ve written about this before in my blogs.
Before I started my business I had a good amount of self-confidence.👈👈👈
Only, once I started my business and things started to take off, it jumped significantly.✈✈✈
And one of the things that has changed, I will go out to eat by myself.
I know many cringe at the idea.
And I know that because I’ve spoken with so many people about this very subject.
I get it.
I used to be the same way.
I would NEVER go out to eat by myself.
Now, I don’t give it a second thought.
Just like going to a networking event by myself.
I just do it as they say 😉
That’s just one of the many changes that have happened to me in the past 8 years.
Going out to places by myself.
Starting my very own business.
Not caring what others think about me (like, starting my own business).
Being more confident then I’ve ever been in my entire life.
Growing my audience around the world by over 400,000+
None of these things ever would have happened had I not started my NineFrogs business.
So, what sets your soul on fire?
I knew for years when I was working in the corporate world there was something bigger for me to do.
I just didn’t know what THAT thing was.
Only I just knew it in my soul.
And as the years went by, it only got stronger.
I would literally say to myself, ‘Patti, there is something OUT there you are supposed to be doing.’
And it is most definitely NOT here👈👈👈
Oddly enough, that’s the kind of attitude one has to have to accomplish great things!
It’s not arrogance.
What it is is confidence.👈👈👈
Confident, that you know you are on the right path.
Confident to endure whatever it is you need to endure to get to where you want to be.
It is a path not too many are willing to create.
Most people want safe and secure.
Most people want comfort.
Even if it is comfortable misery.👈👈👈
Been there done that.👈👈👈
These days, I am the fire.
I am the flame.🔥🔥🔥
And there’s no stopping me🙌🙌🙌
When I was a kid, I was afraid of everything.👈👈👈
Only as the years went on.
And the more “life” storms I went through.
I wasn’t as afraid of things as much.
I have found that with each “life” storm I have gone through over the years.
It has made me more courageous.
As the saying goes.
‘That which does not kill us makes us stronger’.
And I’m here to tell you.
That statement couldn’t be more true!👈👈👈
All my years working in the corporate world.
Being around all these ‘executive’ people.
I used to think they were so much smarter than me.
But in reality, they weren’t.
They were just playing the game better than me.👈👈👈
Because at the time, I had no idea how to play the game.
Only, as the years went on, I learned.
I got smarter.
Something a lot of people don’t like.✅✅✅
See, when you are a smart woman, you can be a threat to many people.
So, as I see it, you have two choices.
You can silence yourself because you know you are a threat.
YOU CAN FUCKING ROAR!
And let the world know you WILL be HEARD👈👈👈
Needless to say, I took the second option.
More details of this will be forthcoming in the next month or two.
You can be all three and still be strong.
There is no cookie-cutter recipe for owning your power.
You do the things that feel right for you.
When they feel right.
I love that.
And trust me, so true!
That is true power.
The willingness to stay focused when the odds are against you!👈👈👈
That’s truly a super-power.
That’s a wrap!
Patricia <3 always
NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!