Women who wear black live colorful lives! (11.24.17)

Dreams come true, Patricia, that’s what they do. The only variable is when.
For the slow approach: Resist. Attach. Insist. Deny. Stop. Second guess. Whine. Argue. Defend. Protest. Cry. Struggle. And ask others, when you know the answer yourself. 
For the quick approach: Visualize. Pretend. Prepare. Dodge. Roll. Serpentine. Do not waver over intentions, but over methods. Show up, even when nothing happens. And give thanks in advance. 
You knew that,
   The Universe

“Women who wear black live colorful lives!”

Isn’t that the truth!

Black is such an interesting color.

It can say so many things.

Like, who is that woman?

And why does she always wear black?

The Badura Twins in Pretty Little Thing

Yes they do☝☝☝

Are you one of us?

What makes you wear black all the time?

Sure, they say it makes you look slimmer.

But, it’s more than that🀩🀩🀩

I find it adds a bit of mystique to a woman.

Something that says, ‘I would love to know what is going on in her head because I bet she is very interesting.’

Yes, that’s what wearing black does to a womanπŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯

One of my favorite designers on IG – House of CB

Paige Dress / Alex Perry

Every time☝☝☝

Remember that!

Dress impeccably everyday and then you never have to worry about itπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ



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Hot Sophistication / Lane Bryant 

I’ve said that like a million times.

It is FAR better to be over-dressed than under-dressed.

Arrive over-dressed, and you are guaranteed to be the life of the party.

Alternatively, arrive under-dressed and you will feel like hiding out in the ladies room all night!

I told this story many years ago.

My friend invited me to her country club (casual country club).

Anyway, I was in the ladies room, checking myself out in the full length mirror to make sure my dress was hanging where it was supposed to be.

All of a sudden, this woman (that I did not know) comes out of the stall, stands right next to me, looks in the mirror, and then says, ‘you know, this is a CASUAL party, you DIDN’T HAVE to wear a dress.’

I should add, she was wearing a lovely pair of pants.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

See, that’s the power of over-dressing!βœ”βœ”βœ”

And I wasn’t even wearing a LBD.

As I recall, it was some floral summer dress.🌼🌼🌼

Only, that woman felt so intimated because of the way I was dressed.

That’s what you call power in dressingπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺ

That Back, Adore / Indah Clothing

That’s the thing about wearing black.

Even if you are over-dressed, it still doesn’t matter.

I wear black all the time.🌈🌈🌈

Because, I can dress it up or dress it down.

And all I have to do is change my makeup or jewelry and I have a whole new look.πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

It’s much easier for me to work with on a daily basis.

I don’t know about you, but I lead a busy life, so I need to make getting dressed as easy as possible.

So, dressing in black works for meβœ…βœ…βœ…

Mac Duggal

Absolutely Love <3 / Intermix

Mickey Mouse Dress / Lena Hoschek


When you are looking for something different / Stone Cold Fox

My Favorite Of Them All / The Ashley Graham / Marina Rinaldi

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ “People will stare.  Make it worth their while!”




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