Swipe right, all in the name of LOVE <3 (8/4/19)

Ask with love, Patricia Bokowski, and their answer may surprise you. 
“Hi, it’s Love and I…”
  The Universe


Swipe right, all in the name of love.  Or swipe left, all in the name of love <3

Either way, it’s a crap shot these dating daysπŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯

I know it’s hard to believe, but the dating world has actually gotten worse!

As if, that’s even humanly possible. LOL

I mean, you would think, how hard can it be to find someone you like?

Actually, pretty difficult.

Some days I feel like giving up on the whole thing.

But then I remember, I DON’T GIVE UPπŸ˜‰.

I recently wrote a blog on relationships and, quite frankly, received quite a lot of feedback from people.

Both good and bad.

But the best comments were from people who have been married like forever!

Many of them saying, ‘it can’t be that bad”!

Oh yes it can.

Let’s see, let me share some of more memorable dates…

The guy who stalked me before we even had our official first date.

This other guy who literally talked for an hour straight on our first date.

And yet another guy I met for lunch who had told me he was divorced, only to tell me he wasn’t when I actually met him. 

He said he thought after I met him I wouldn’t mind. 

He was wrong πŸ™‚

Oh, and the guy I met at Applebee’s who looked nothing like his picture (must have been from ten years ago). 

The really funny part about this particular date was, about an hour or so before we were meeting, he sent me a text saying, ‘no hard feelings if we don’t hit it off.”

To which I responded, “no problem.”

I meet him in the reception area of Applebee’s, and as he’s talking, in my head, I’m surveying the situation, saying do I go in and have a drink with him to be nice, OR, do I just leave? 

I mean, he did say, if we don’t hit it off…

So I left. 

He wasn’t very happy.

Said it was the rudest thing anyone had every done to him. 

I highly doubt that!

My absolute favorite story was…the guy who told me he was a vampire. 

Yes.  A vampire.

That’s way too long a story.

Plus, if that guy ever saw I wrote about him he probably wouldn’t be too happy with me.

and, like, I still want to date πŸ˜‰

That’s just a sampling of some of my stories.  I have many moreπŸ˜‰

Dating 2019.

Not for the faint of heart.

You have to be a soldier of love, I swear πŸ˜‰

And we wonder why all the single people aren’t happy these days.

Enjoy today’s gallery:

Whether you are looking for your Prince/Princess, sometimes you just need to take a break from all the dating apps and just work on you.

Take you to lunch.

Go to the spa.

Who doesn’t love shopping.

Take care of youπŸ’™

That’s the reality of relationships.

Only it seems these days, people just don’t either want to put in the time, OR the commitment to do so!

Or, and this is a big one, some people are always looking for someone better!

Or so they think.πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„


Sometimes people walk into your life.πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

And, sometimes people walk out of your life.βœ”βœ”βœ”

Let them!


As long as they don’t snoreπŸ˜‰

I’m always amazed when I talk to people in the dating world and they have thi laundry lists of “wants” of their “perfect” match.https://www.ninefrogs.com/happiness-wheres-mine-6-1-19/

Then they wonder why they can’t find a date.

Toss your list and be open to who comes into your life.

You might be surprised.



No need to make a fuss, just walk away.πŸ–πŸ–πŸ–

Here’s my message for the people who dropped out of the dating game!

Time to get back in the game!

If you genuinely want to meet someone, that’s what you need to doπŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–https://www.ninefrogs.com/my-deep-desire-to-inspire-7-7-19/

You can’t sit on your couch looking at your vision board, waiting for your perfect somebody to come knocking on your door.

Not gonna happen.

I so believe that <3

Don’t get so caught up in your next relationship that you forget about you.

And lastly, this:

Some people smile, Patricia, to make friends. Others smile to look younger and live longer. And then there are those, Patricia, who so totally get life, that smiling is all they know. Cheese,   The Universe

That’s a wrap for this LifeStyle Blogger <3

And maybe you didn’t need to read this today, but maybe you know someone who does.

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ Be so good they can’t ignore you!



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