Fearless! (7/31/17)

Go with it.
Roll, Patricia Bokowski. Swerve. 
The “unexpected” is just my way of preparing you
for more than you knew to ask for. 
Bounce back, serpentine, 2-step – 
   The Universe
Once you become fearless, life becomes limitless!

Wonder why people feel helpless?

Because they give up their power!


They give up their power without even realizing it.

And then can’t figure out why they feel so helpless?

That is the BIG lesson for sure!

Once you realize that your life changes.

No one scares you anymore.

And let’s be honest, that’s one of the reasons we feel powerless, because we feel someone is more powerful than us!

I’ve written about this before in my blogs.

Before I started my business I had a good amount of self-confidence.

But, once I started my business and things started to take off, it jumped significantly.

And one of the things that has changed, I will go out to eat by myself.


I know many cringe at the idea, LOL.

Yup, just my beautiful self.  I had an early doctors appointment and afterwards I was like, I’m hungry and I haven;t been to my favorite diner in ages.

Let’s go!

So, I took myself to breakfast.

That most likely never wouldn’t have happened ten years ago.

Call it self-confidence, call it owning my power, call it whatever you want.

What sets YOUR soul on fireπŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯

That THING that makes you get out of bed in the morning that sparks your inner-self?

For me, it was starting my business.

I’ve written about this before.  I had no clue what I was doing when I first started.  Like none.

Except one thing I knew for sure, I was going to be successful.  I had that in me.

And I think you need to have that in you to succeed.

Knowing “how” you are going to do is not necessary.

Just KNOW that you will is true power.


When I was younger I was afraid of everything.

Like everything.

Then, by the time I got to my 20’s, I wasn’t so much.

I have found that with each “life” storm I have gone through over the years, it has made me more courageous.

Because quite honestly, like the saying goes, ‘what doesn’t kill, you makes you stronger.”

And I’m here to tell you, that statement couldn’t be any more true!

I believe, as women we have been told since we were little, not to be so outspoken.  (Depending when you were born).

You know, because we’re women.

Don’t be so LOUD.

And I practiced that for a very long time.

These days, not so much.

I have found my voice and I indeed on using it.

Every woman on this earth has a voice.

My personal wish, for every one of them to be heardπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺ

Because we have a lot to sayπŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

Don’t you just love that <3









That is true power.  The willingness to stay focused when the odds are against you!


So now you have to ask yourself, what is you want, and what are you willing to do to get it?

You have the POWER to do anything you want!

Till next time,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ Be so good they can’t ignore you!