LOVE on the rocks <3 (1.19.2020)

Patricia Bokowski, have you ever seen a complete stranger across a room, street, or hallway, and sent them a silent, “You are loved,” just for the good it might do? I have. But then, to me, they’re not really strangers. Smile, and the world smiles with you.Neither are they to you, Patricia Bokowski –  The Universe / Love on the Rocks!

You’re being watched by loving eyes๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ The Universe

Love on the rocks. Gonna get a little rocky here today๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡

I was having a conversation yesterday with someone I know who is currently single, and also, terribly sad ๐Ÿ™

They said they were sure that they would have found ‘somebody’ by now.๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž๐Ÿ˜ž

As if love comes on a timetable.๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’˜

My advice to them, and anyone else who is single reading this, is that, there is no timetable to love.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

It just doesn’t work like that?

Listen, anyone can find ‘somebody’.โœ”โœ”โœ”

If that’s what you really want?๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

Some body?

But, are you really just looking for a ‘body’?

And remember this, if you wind up with the wrong person, you could very possibly feel a whole lot lonelier than being alone.๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธ

Yes, been there, done that!

There is a difference between being alone, and being lonely.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

HUGE difference!๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š

So today I am sharing some LOVE quotes to spur your imagination, make you smile, and hopefully, make you see that being ‘alone’ is not a terrible thingโคโคโค

Remember, it’s not forever, it’s just for now๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Been there, done thatโ˜โ˜โ˜

MORE than once!

Never again.๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ

Sorry, not sorry๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

But, if you want someone who really means something to you, sometimes you just have to wait it out.๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ

So, if you happen to be ‘solo’ this Valentine’s Day, don’t be sad ;-(

It is far better to be solo then to be with someone who makes you feel alone.

Or, someone you don’t even really like.๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

Like, you’re with someone just so you can say you have a date for Valentine’s Day๐Ÿ’Ÿ๐Ÿ’Ÿ๐Ÿ’Ÿ

I’m sure many of you know exactly what I’m talking about.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Like I just saidโ˜โ˜โ˜

That’s the truth!

We’ve ALL been there.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

It’s taken me a long time to get that๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

What you want is someone who is FULLY in, not just when it’s convenient!

Karma is on your side <3


Love on the rocks
Ain’t no surprise
Just pour me a drink and I’ll tell you my lies
Yesterday’s gone
And now all I want is a smile

Love on the Rocks by Neil Diamond๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข

That’s how it works.

Remember that.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

You attract what you are.๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ

Not what you want๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

So, who are you and what do you want?

And if you REALLY think about it…and get deep with it, you’ll find it’s two completely different things? #foodforthought

You’ll find what you seek! / The Universe

What’s truly yours won’t ever be withheld from you.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

I was just talking about this in my latest YouTube video. (It’s called The Lotus Rose)

Like everything else in life, you need to be on the dance floor in order for opportunity to find you.๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ

So go pursue your dreams. ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ

Work on the things you like. +++

Take that exercise class. ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ’ช

Sign-up for that college class you’ve been wanting to take.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Start that new side-gig you’ve been wanting to do for so long (yes, now is the time). ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

And while you are so busy living your life, going after your dreams, maybe, just maybe, the love you have been looking for will find you.๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’˜

Because they will have been busy doing exactly the SAME thing. ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

And in case you missed it, I started my YouTube Channel last week, it’s called The Lotus Rose and here is the link if you’d like to check it out!

Patricia D. Bokowski – The Lotus Rose on YouTube


So the people who were around when Christ was around, were having the same issues with love that we have today!

I think they might have had it easier, as they didn’t have to use OKQ,, Plenty of Fish, or any of the other horrid dating apps ๐Ÿ˜‰

LOVE is love. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜


Loving yourself is essential to having a healthy relationship with someone else.๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’˜

So, take the time for yourself

Indulge yourself.๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜›

Take yourself out to dinner.

Find something you love to do and do it by yourself.๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ

My friend Winn says she treats herself very well; she takes herself out to eat, goes shopping, buys herself nice things and takes care of her body.๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ“

That is how you do it๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

“if he don’t love you anymore, just walk your fine ass out the door.”๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ

Good as Hell – Lizzo ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ

Is that not perfect๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ #walkyourfineassoutthedoor

The BEST kind of women:-)



Don’t believe everything you see on social media.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

Remember, most people are on there to ‘sell’ something, in one way shape or form.๐Ÿ˜‘๐Ÿ˜‘๐Ÿ˜‘

Take it for what it’s worth๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

You have no idea what’s going on ‘behind’ those pictures!

Who can relate?


That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!

Dedicated to my two sons, my world โคโคโค

From the book: Life’s Greatest Treasure๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™


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