Love, and the pursuit of it! (8/6/18)

Ask with love, Patricia Bokowski, and their answer may surprise you. 
“Hi, it’s Love and I…”
Love The Universe

LOVE – an intense feeling of deep affection <3

The illusive search for love; the highs and lows of it. 

Whether you are full-on looking for a LTR, or just taking it casually.

One thing is for sure,  dating is not for the tender-hearted. 

Dating in 2018 is a whole different level of dating than it was ten years ago (more on that in my next blog). 

  In the words of Albert Einstein:

“You have to learn the rules of the game. 

And then you have to play better than anyone else.” 

Pretty much πŸ™‚

It leaves scars on our hearts and souls; which in turn.

Either makes you retreat under the blankets and never want to date again, or, like myself, just keep putting one foot in front of another and keep going!

Whether you have just entered the dating world, or like me, have been in it for a while (off and on).

One thing for sure, the love quotes I’ve picked for this blog sum up my feelings on dating, love and the lasting effects it leaves on us.  

I’ve made this a two-part blog, as one blog just doesn’t cover it all. 

Please Enjoy!



I love you just the way you are.

but you don’t see you like I do.

You shouldn’t try so hard to be perfect.

Trust me, perfect should try to be you!”


“And one day she discovered that she was fierce.

and strong.  And full of fire.  And that not even

she could hold herself back because her passion

burned brighter than her fears.” 

Mark Anthony

“You don’t love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or their fancy car;

you love them because they sing a song only you can hear.”

Oscar Wilde


“Love is composed of a single soul inhibiting two bodies.’ 



“She was finally ok, or at least she believed.

She had no idea where she was going,

but she sure knew where she’d been,

and anywhere was better than that.”

JM Storm


“she was a savage,

a fucking brute,

unafraid to fight

for what she wanted,

brave enough to go to war

for what she deserved.”

r.h. Sin


“Love planted a rose, and the world turned sweet.”

Katharine Lee Bates


“Babygirl, you are the sun.

Stop giving them your warmth,

if they can’t support your shine.”



“Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.”

Emily Bronte


“An invisible red thread connects those who are destined to meet,

regardless of time, place or circumstance. 

The thread may stretch or tangle, but it will never break.”

Chinese Proverb

This illusive search for love. 

They say if you found it once, you will find it again. 

Personally, I have found it quite a few times. 

Unfortunately, it just didn’t have that sticking power.

And that’s why I’m still in the game, I am forever an optimist!

I ended this blog with the above quote for a reason. 

I wanted to end the blog on a positive note. 

Because trust me, having a negative attitude in the dating world will get you nowhere. 

In the search for love, lust, or whatever you are looking for, keep love in your heart, but be a savage about it!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ Be so good they can’t ignore you!

“We fall in LOVE by chance, we stay in LOVE by choice.”


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