“Life Hacks!” (7.23.19)

Patricia Bokowski, do you know what it’s going to feel like when the day comes and everything you now want has come to pass?

When you’re living in total abundance, in perfect health, looking fabulous, with friends and laughter wherever you go? 
It’s going to feel like, “Yeah… of course.” 
That’s how well I know you,  The Universe / ‘Life Hacks”

Feel it NOWπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


Life hack is any trick, shortcut, skill, or novelty method that increases productivity and efficiency, in all walks of life.

This blog is for anyone who is struggling these days.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

I know life isn’t always easy. πŸ€·β€β™€οΈπŸ€·β€β™€οΈπŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

Trust me, I am very aware of that fact.

In case you may have missed it, I have written several blogs of my own personal struggles.πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰

I have been through some major life shix.

Circumstances that I wasn’t sure how I would survive.πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

But I did.πŸ‘‹πŸ‘‹πŸ‘‹

And guess what?

When you go through shix like that…

It makes you STRONGERπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺ

And FIERCEπŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯

Like that term goes; That which does not kill me, makes me stronger!”

When you make it through the storm, you come out stronger than when you went in. ☝☝☝

Similarly, some people never recover from the storm and live the rest of their lives caught up in it.

Fortunately, there are some simple things you can do to get some leverage while navigating the ups and downs of life.πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

Because, I’ll be honest with you.🐸🐸🐸

If you don’t have some kind of handle on “life”. πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰

“Life” will have a handle on you.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸

Today I’m sharing some of my best life hacks to make your life that much easier:

Dress Your Best. As in, put some thought into what you look like when you walk out the front door.

Some people are so quick to poo poo the idea that they should need to look good?

I find it hard to believe you can go out and pursue your dreams when you are dressing like shix.

And yes, many of you are.πŸ‘ˆ

I am people watching all the time.πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰

Mark Zuckenburg wears a t-shirt and jeans everyday to work and looks great.

Tom Ford wears a suit and tie to work every day and looks fabulous.

We all know the Fedex man wears his uniform and we adore him!

You get the idea.☝☝☝

Wearing you pj’s and slippers to 7-11 isn’t cutting it.

Just put a little thought into it.

Even when you don’t feel like it.🌼🌼🌼

And those little extras like…

Style your hair nicely.

If need be, get a hair cut.🌷🌷🌷


Use deodorant.

A little cologne goes a long way.

A dab of perfume or your favorite body spray can make you feel amazing!

Apply some make-up (even if it’s simply lip gloss).

Take good care of your skin. It will make you feel better when you look in the mirror and like what you see.

No matter what you do, get up, get dressed and get going!https://www.ninefrogs.com


When you are feeling good about your appearance, you won’t believe how great you will feel.😍😍😍

You will interact better with others AND will perceive you better. 

Carry yourself with more self-confidence throughout your day and I guarantee you, that by the end of the day, your confidence will be soaring.πŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺ


I am always so amazed when I’m working with someone new, and I see how they are having such a hard time of it.

It’s called Project Management.

Now, you can use this tool for any project, however big or small.

Like, getting ready for work the night before.

Or, working on a new project around the house.

Even as simple as organizing a closet.

If you can master this trait, I will tell you, it will make your life SO Much Easier.

I see people all the time struggle with this conflict.

Don’t be one of themπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡

Smile. You have all heard me say this a million times. πŸ™‚πŸ™‚πŸ™‚

The next time you walk out your door, make it a point to smile to whoever you come across.😁😁😁 

Your significant other, the cashier at the coffee shop, your co-workers, you get the idea.


Even if you aren’t feeling it.

Do it anyway.

And I guarantee you will start to feel better.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

What is your body language saying these days?

Think about that, because that is how people perceive you.

Are you giving off positive vibes?

If your energy level is low, you need to fix that asap!

Are you making eye-contact?  πŸ˜³πŸ˜³πŸ˜³

This is so important for your relationships with others. 

And to make your life easier!

It really lets people know you are connecting with them. 

How would you like to be having a conversation with someone and the whole time they are either looking over your shoulder, or worse, the floor?

Every once in while I run into one of these people, and needless to say, I keep the conversation short and sweet.

Pay attention to these things, because these are the things that will make your life better!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

De-Tox on the negativity. And God knows, there is SO MUCH negativity out there these days.

Like a TON of it.

It has literally infiltrated every area of our lives.

And it is up to us to shut it down.πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈπŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈπŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ

As for me, I don’t read the newspaper, ever.

I don’t follow anyone who spreads any kind of negativity.

I only listen to WFUV, best radio station in NYC.πŸ—½πŸ—½πŸ—½

My office is filled with inspirational and motivational books.πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

I keep my circle small.

Like, really small.

And only, positive, supportive people are in it!πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

Having a healthy does of self-confidence is essential to having an easier life.

Nothing is going to make your days harder if you are constantly doubting yourselfπŸ˜ͺπŸ˜ͺπŸ˜ͺ


No time for that.

YOU want a healthy does of self-confidence to go pursue your dreams, live a life of abundance, and be happy doing it!

You know those people☝☝☝


Most of them are your friends or family.

Stay away from anyone who doesn’t think you are the MAGIC🌈🌈🌈

I find that’s a big reason people are having a hard time in life.

It’s because they are surrounded by people who don’t appreciate them.

Or, who put them down.😞😞😞

Here’s my advice, but those people out of your life right now!

It’s far better to be alone, or with a really small circle, than to be around people who don’t appreciate you, or, undermine you!

Say please and thank you.β™₯β™₯β™₯

Open the door for someone.

Buy the person behind you a cup of coffee for no reason other than paying it forward.

Lastly, stop and smell the roses.

Every now and then, disconnect from all your electronics.

They aren’t going anywhere.

Read a book.

Meet a friend for lunch.

Go to a local park and walk around for an hour.πŸƒβ€β™€οΈπŸƒβ€β™€οΈπŸƒβ€β™€οΈ

Breathe some fresh air.


Spend an afternoon in nature.

Stick your toes in the sand, or grass.

Both work.🐸🐸🐸

Make sure you check out my YouTube Channel for more inspiration!

And if you are seeking a fresh outlook on life, book an Image Coaching appointment with me today!

Go to www.ninefrogs.com/contactme or text me at 516-603-1479 today!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!




One Response

  1. Linda Catalano July 23, 2019

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