I’m a woman, what’s your superpower? (8/29/19)

Guidance, attention, help, maybe. Love, always. Criticism, never. 
What to give others, Patricia Bokowski. 
Love always,    The Universe

I’m a woman, what’s your superpower?

Work on it, every single day👈👈👈

I work on my business every day. That includes weekends and holidays!

If you want to make your dreams come true, then you have to be prepared to work for them!

Me these days🔥🔥🔥

Today I’m sharing some powerful of inspiration for women!

Why you may ask?

Because I feel there is a great need to empower women!👊👊👊

Far too many women are stripped of their power on a daily basis.👈👈👈

And, for a variety of reasons.

So, to that end, read on:

YES, you will!👈👈👈

That’s not for you to worry about!

Do it anyway👍👍👍


When people say you can’t do it, it means they don’t see HOW it can be done?

Only, they aren’t YOU👈👈👈

You are smart!

And have resources!

Knows how to GOOGLE stuff😁😁😁

Is a resource herself🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

Can find the people to help her solve her problems👈👈👈

YOU are THAT girl🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

There is a clip on Pinterest, with Tyler Perry in character as Medea, and he’s giving advice to a young man who just had his heart broken, and this is what she says (and I’m paraphrasing):

“Go home, have a good cry if you want. And then pick yourself up and move on.

If you have done everything you can to make someone happy, and they want to leave, LET THEM LEAVE!”

Seems like sound advice.♥♥♥

I love that💖💖💖

There is a difference between being cocky and being confident!

Confidence doesn’t make others feel bad about themselves.

It took me a long time to feel that kind of confidence, and let me tell you, once you have attained that kind of confidence, you have truly leveled up☝☝☝


So please don’t.☹☹☹

And remember, you are SO worthy of everything!🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

I love that <3

LOVE may come and go!

Your career will always be there for you!https://www.ninefrogs.com/motivation-monday-9-23-19/

Thank you Lady Gaga🙏🙏🙏

True that!

Sometimes we think everyone is going to be so happy for us, only to find out they’re not.

As a result, I have found it best in my life to keep some good news either to myself, or just my inner circle.👈👈👈

The harsh reality is not everyone is going to be genuinely happy for you.

What can you do?🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Be HAPPY for YOU😁😁😁

Without a doubt🕊🕊🕊

Be that woman☝☝☝

I’ve recently had some life events which have caused me to be that girl☝☝☝☝☝

And I’ll be honest with you, I was afraid😑😑😑

Like, really afraid!

But, I did it anyway.🦾🦾🦾

Ever since, not so afraid of much now 😉

That’s the thing about over-coming your fears!!!

Sometimes you just have to bite-the-bullet and just do it✔✔✔

BE girl who is willing to fight for what she deserves.👊👊👊

God, how true is that?

Every woman I know over 40🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

So sick of EVERYONE’S shiz.

Said every woman everywhere❤❤❤

We’ve all been there!

I call this ‘nice women’s syndrome’.

Where we don’t want to offend anyone, or cause a scene, or make trouble for anyone else.https://www.ninefrogs.com/life-hacks-for-easy-living-7-23-19/

So we eat it, so to speak.😖😖😖

Until the war inside us is too much to bear.😮😮😮

Therefore, we have to decide, the war inside us vs. the war against us.😠😠😠

And I hope if you find yourself in this place, I sincerely hope that you choose to go to war!!!

True enough!

If people wanted you to write “nice” things about them, they should have treated you better🙏🙏🙏

So don’t ever hold back on speaking YOUR truth👈👈👈

“Be that girl who roots for the other girl, tells a stranger her hair looks amazing, and encourages other women to believe in themselves and their dreams!”

And there you have it!

Moral of the story.

Stop taking other people’s crap🦄🦄🦄

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ Be so good they can’t ignore you!



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