If it doesn’t open it’s not your door! (3/25/19)

there are a lot of doors out there.

and some of them may not be your door.

so stopping knocking on it and move onto the next door!

that’s what messes some people up, they get stuck on one door, that wasn’t even THEIR door!

“If a door doesn’t open for you, it’s not your door.  What is truly yours won’t ever be withheld from you.

I think that sentence messes with a lot of people.

They get so hung up on a “door” and if it doesn’t open, they spend the rest of their lives waiting for it to open. 

Forgetting the fact that it’s just not “their” door.

And that can be a door to love, relationships, career, friends, life…it doesn’t matter which one. 

Once closed, leave it and find a new door.

You can change your life at any second, all you have to do is “try”.

There are millions of doors out there, your job is to find the door(s) that is meant for you. 

And the only way you are going to find “your” door, is to knock on as many as you can!

Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸

If it’s love you’re looking for, that means meeting as many potential “loves” as you can until you find your LOVE.

Perhaps you’re looking for a new career. 

Then try as many different jobs you can until you find the one that spurs your passion and feels like home.

“When nothing is sure, anything is possible!”

Anything and everything is possible!

If you want to work life’s magic, all you have to do is get out there, in the world, meet new people, and go new places.

When I started my business back in 2012, and I had no idea what I was doing (which I’ve spoken about before).  I knew one thing for sure though, I knew I had to get myself “out there” and meet as many people as I could.

I wanted let as many people know;

who I was, 

what I was doing and

where I planned on taking NineFrogs!


If I told you how many people I have met for a cup of coffee over the years, or how many networking events I have attended, or how many phone calls I’ve had with complete strangers, all in the name of pursuing my goal of growing  my business into a huge international success (and working on that every day!)…

THAT’S how you find your door. 

By knocking on any that sounds like it might be your door.

And when it’s not your door, which trust me, I’ve knocked on many doors that weren’t mine…


As in, get the fucc out asap!

When it’s not your door, there is no point in staring at the door, or feeling sorry for yourself because it’s not your door.

And again, that goes for business, love, life.

You name it.

If it doesn’t work for you, LEAVE.

You just move along to the next door. 

And guess what? there are still an infinite amount of doors to still try.

Number 10.

It’s ok to let go and move on!

There is no sense in trying to hold on to something when it’s not working.

Be it a job, a relationship, or a friend.  Once it’s done, it’s done.

And lastly, don’t let someone else tell you which door is your door.

No.  You are the only one who can tell if it is your door.  And you alone.

People will say things like, “hey you should try such and and such” or “why don’t you do xyz”.

For the most part, they mean well.  Only, they are directing you to the door THEY think you should be knocking on.

Not necessarily the door YOU want to be knocking on.

Watch where you knock.

Trust me, when you knock on the right door, you will know it!

So for now, keep knocking!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ Be so good they can’t ignore you!

Something else that most forget.
There is a lesson in everything.



Comments (2)

  1. Michael Ault March 24, 2019
    • Patricia Bokowski March 25, 2019

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