How to Have Amazing Self-Confidence! (9.18.17)

If you frequently give yourself permission to doodle, wander, and be totally unproductive, Patricia Bokowski, and you actually relish such interludes, I can guarantee that your genius, creativity, and productivity will increase exponentially.
I’ve seen it happen a billion times. 
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How to have amazing self-confidence!


One of my favorite topics, how to have amazing self- confidence ๐Ÿฆพ๐Ÿฆพ๐Ÿฆพ

Note:  it doesn’t happen overnight and it isn’t something that once you get, you stop.  ๐Ÿ›‘๐Ÿ›‘๐Ÿ›‘

It is something you work at everyday for the rest of your life.  #everyday

Once you “get it” (you’ll know when you get it).๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

The very rare are born with it, but not many.๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

And once you “have it”, you have to keep working at it everyday.  

In order get it, you might need different things on different days.

Some days you might need more inspiration/motivation.๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

Others, more exercise/movement.๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿƒโ€โ™€๏ธ

Like I’m kind of feeling today, because I have been sitting at my desk for hours (which is a totally bad idea).โ˜โ˜โ˜

Some days you might need a nap.  ๐Ÿ˜‘๐Ÿ˜‘๐Ÿ˜‘

I know one thing, it is an ever lasting journey.๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ‘Š

Rule #1, Believe in Yourself!  

You have to have unwavering belief in yourself. Iโ€™m a woman, whatโ€™s your superpower? (8.29.19)

You have to know what you want so badly that nothing can stop you from getting it.๐Ÿ˜ฃ๐Ÿ˜ฃ๐Ÿ˜ฃ  

So unwavering, that when anyone tells you otherwise, you take it with a grain of salt.

Because YOU KNOW BETTER.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ


Rule #2, Surround Yourself With People Who Believe In You!  

Remember, you are the sum of the five people you surround yourself with.  โ˜โ˜โ˜

Make sure those people believe in you, your dreams, and are in your life to lift you higher!

Rule #3, Pursue Greatness Every Day!  

What is it that motivates you?  

Are your dreams and desires in-line with your actions?๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

Where are you heading?  Because if YOU don’t know, any road will take you there!

As I’ve said before, do not concern yourself with the “hows”…that is not for you to think about.  

No one knows “how” it will happen.  ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ

Pursuing greatness is another way of saying; wake up with a deep desire to succeed at any cost! #ANY

Rule #4, Wake Up With Enthusiasm For Your Life!๐Ÿ•Š๐Ÿ•Š๐Ÿ•Š

Knowledge is wonderful, only it’s enthusiasm that pulls the switch!

Having genuine enthusiasm helps a great deal in the quest for great self-confidence.  

You need to be excited about everything, everyday!  ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

And if you don’t have something to be excited about, then you need to ask yourself, why not?

Rule #5, Dress Sharp!  

Above all, nothing works better at giving you self-confidence than looking AND feeling good about yourself.  

You will see how much better you feel when you look in the mirror and like what you see!

And, when you look AND feel better about yourself, you are more likely to reach those dreams you are trying to bring into fruition!๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’›

Rule #6, SMILE ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

I know I use this one all the time, and I make no apologies about it!  

The sheer act of smiling gives you confidence.  ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

It boosts your adrenaline, which sends out endorphins, which in turn, makes you feel better. ๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿคฉ 

Like what happens when you exercise, only easier!

Now SMILE ;-

Rule #7, Be The Best Version Of Yourself!

Work on yourself every day and you will start seeing the difference in YOU!  

No need to copy anyone else.  You are amazing! (1.1.2020)

You are unique, remarkable and fabulous.  ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

Problem is, most people don’t take the time to get to know themselves.  

Most people don’t spend enough time alone to find out “who” they are.

Which, in my opinion, is one of the greatest things you can do to be successful in life!

Spend some quality time alone everyday!

In order to be the best version of yourself, you need to work on yourself on every level.โ˜โ˜โ˜


Rule #8, Take An Adventureโœˆโœˆโœˆ

Do something out of the norm.  

It doesn’t have to entail hopping on a plane.โœˆโœˆโœˆ

Take yourself to lunch!  ๐Ÿ›ด๐Ÿ›ด๐Ÿ›ด

Get in your car one morning and take a drive to somewhere you’ve never been.  ๐Ÿš“๐Ÿš“๐Ÿš“

It doesn’t have to be far away, maybe there’s some place you’ve been longing to go back and visit again.  

If you keep living the same life day in and day out, you start living your life like Ground Hog’s Day.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

And no one wants that!

Rule #9, Take Up Public Speaking.  ๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™€๏ธ

Now I  know many of you would rather die than take up public speaking, that’s a scientific fact!

Which, when you think about, is pretty funny.  

People would rather die than stand in front of a group of people and give a speech๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฌ.

Yes, it can be daunting.  

No doubt!

It’s also a huge rush.

Unexpected rush no less.

It’s a great way to test yourself and get out of your comfort zone.  โœ…โœ…๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅโœ…

How can you do that you might ask?  

My best advice, join your local Toast Masters (they are all over the world).  

There is also a wonderful Dale Carnegie class (which I took as well), that was pivotal for me in my public speaking confidence.  

It know it can be terrifying, do it anyway!โ˜โ˜โ˜

Me now, versus me five years ago.  That’s what self-confidence can do for you!

There you have it, My 9 suggestions to gain self-confidence.  โ˜โ˜โ˜

I’m not saying it is easy.

I am saying, it is worth itโคโคโค.  

Self-confidence is the “thing” that helps propel you to where you want to be.๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

It helps you do those things that are scary.  ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฌ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

It makes you attractive to others.  ๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿคฉ

And once you have it, you’ll want more, trust me!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth while!


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