How to Have a Happy Day :-) (6/22/18)

There’s never been a day in your life, Patricia, when you were as close to your awesome successful thriving fabulous business, as you are today. 
So very, very close –
   The Universe
Now that’s how you Have a Happy Day πŸ˜‰

Isn’t that the truth!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

It’s never easy is it?

So, you have to find a way to make it work!

Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸

aka Frog Consultant Extraordinaire

That said, today I’m sharing some of my BEST  How to Have A Happy Day tips & tricksπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡

NineFrogs Fashion Blogger🌈🌈🌈

Help someone else!

Even when you are feeling down, one of the best things you can do is help someone else.β˜πŸ‘β˜

I’m sure you have a neighbor, a friend, a relative who could use a hand.

Have a co-worker who could use some help on the weekend.πŸ™‹β€β™€οΈπŸ™‹β€β™€οΈπŸ™‹β€β™€οΈ

Photo of the day!

There is always someone who could use your help. πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

When’s the last time you picked up the phone and called someone who would love to hear from you out of nowhere?

Make someone smile, better yet, make them laugh. 😍😍😍

They will treasure you forever and they will never forget you for doing it😁😁😁

And the sheer act of helping another will change your whole disposition, which no doubt, will lift your spirit and make you happy!

“Appearance is everything. 

Feeling good about yourself on the outside will help you feel good on the inside.”

Patricia D. Bokowski

NineFrogs Fashion/LifeStyle Blogger


Smile!  The simple act of smiling will make you feel better.

It’s a scientific fact😊😊😊😊

Even if you have to fake it.

Double bonus points if you make someone else smile (it’s like kindness, through that shiz around like confetti!)✨✨✨


Coco Chanel knew best! If you’re sad, add more lipstick and attack.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Actually, all you need to do is find a shade of lipstick that makes your face light up!

And I don’t care if it’s your favorite brand of chapstick, that counts too πŸ˜‰

Just wear it like the beautiful beast that you are.

I find so many people are afraid to shine.

As if they need permission (hint; you don’t).

So if that’s the case with you, you have my permission to shine!

Like a big, beautiful motherfxcker πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Trust me,  you most definitely will feel better about yourself!☝☝☝

Stop comparing yourself to other people!  

You are uniquely you, own it!

As the saying goes, “comparison is the thief of joy!”

So stop doing it.  TodayπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Don’t worry about who’s grass is greener, worry about your own grass and grow a God damn field of lilies.πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡

You only live once?


You live everyday.

You only die once.

“To live is…the rarest thing in the world.  Most people exist, that’s all. / Oscar Wilde

Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸

My good friend Helene told me that whenever she’s not having a great day, or she’s feeling a little down, she goes out and pulls weeds from her garden.πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯ 

And she said, she always feels better.🌼🌼🌼

Whether you are pulling weeds or planting flowers, mother nature has a wonderful way of connecting us back to her, and her soothing qualities.


Get up, dress up, show up and NEVER give up!  

I cannot emphasize this one enough☝☝☝

Before you walk out your front door in the morning, take a quick look in the mirror and ask yourself, “is this the image I’ve chosen to show the world who I am today”?

Looking and feeling your best are the keys to self-confidence, and when you have self-confidence, you can do anything!

Like pursue all those dreams you have!πŸ¦„πŸ¦„πŸ¦„

Stop looking for happiness outside of yourself! 

YOU are the only one who can make YOU happy.πŸ™‹β€β™€οΈπŸ™‹β€β™€οΈπŸ™‹β€β™€οΈ

Other people can add to your happiness, but you are in charge of your happiness.☝☝☝

And here is BIG reminder,  stop giving the keys to YOUR happiness to someone else.

Your happiness, your responsibility!How to have a great attitude? (8/23/19)

How much exercise do you get?πŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺ

“Most” people say, not much ;-(

And that’s a terrible thing.πŸ™„πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘

Listen, I’ve lived that lifestyle for over twenty years back when I was in the corporate world.😣😣😣

I get it.

You work all day, come home, eat dinner, sit down and watch TV for hours on end.

Here’s the thing though.πŸ€·β€β™€οΈπŸ€·β€β™€οΈπŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

That lifestyle makes you; fat, bored, disinterested, gives you a foggy brain, and puts your sex life in the toilet!😳

You have to get out and get moving. πŸƒβ€β™€οΈπŸƒβ€β™€οΈπŸƒβ€β™€οΈ

Join a gym, go for a walk, sign-up for a Zumba class, park at the other end of the parking lot, take the stairs…you get the idea.

And while you are at it, drink water, lots of it!

Nothing will age you faster, and make you feel “old” than not taking care of your body! 

In case you haven’t heard, it’s the only place you get to live while you’re here!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


Have you heard the phrase, “you are the sum of the five people you associate with”?

So if you are hanging around with a group of toxic people, guess what?

Your chance for being happy slowly goes down the drain.☹☹☹

Instead, hang out with people who want to see you shine!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

People who make you feel good!πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

People who are out chasing their dreams, and want to see you achieve yours.

Those are your people!

Stay away from people who suck the happy right out of you.

You know who I’m talking about…those people.☝☝☝

Run, don’t walk, and stay far away.πŸƒβ€β™€οΈπŸƒβ€β™€οΈπŸƒβ€β™€οΈ

Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸


Have fun!  

We’re all so busy these days.

Doing God knows what.πŸ€·β€β™€οΈπŸ€·β€β™€οΈπŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

That we forget all about having fun sometimes.

Remember when you were a kid?

Before you learned how to worry πŸ˜‰

When all you had to think about was what kind of fun you were going to have that day?

Well, start adding fun to your schedule.😁😁😁


As much as you can, add something to your schedule that is actually FUN.

Something that makes you excited, like a kid.

Make your soul happy!😁😁😁

And I think I need to start taking my own adviceπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

You don’t have to wait for the “big” things to celebrate! #everydayisacelebration

Bonus hack!

And one of my personal favorites.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

If they aren’t nice to you, then, they go away!  And I don’t care “who” they are.

Because you are destined for GREATNESSπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Wishing you a very Happy Day πŸ˜‰

Talk soon,

Patricia <3

NineFrogs ~ Be so good they can’t ignore you!

NineFrogs Wisdom ~ No one is you and that is your magic!


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