How to gain amazing Self-Confidence! (2/12/19)

SELF-CONFIDENCE:  a feeling of self-assurance arising from one’s appreciation of one’s own abilities or qualities.

Another one of my favorite topics! How to gain amazing self-confidence!

Today’s blog, I’m sharing some of my favorite quotes/thoughts/advice on gaining amazing self-confidence.

Everyone wants it.  Unfortunately, not many know how to get it.

Confidence is a habit that can be developed by acting as if you already have it.

Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸


Developing self-confidence doesn’t happen overnight. It is rather a series of acts taken over and over. 

You literally have to push yourself to do things that make you uncomfortable. 

Key to self-confidence!

In other words, get used to feeling uncomfortable.


Appearance is everything.  Feeling good about yourself on the outside will help you feel good on the inside.

I am sure I have said the above statement over a hundred times in my blogs over the years.  😁😁😁

I cannot emphasize it enough.

If you want to gain amazing self-confidence, you need to look your absolute BESTπŸ’ŸπŸ’ŸπŸ’ŸπŸ’ŽπŸ’ŽπŸ’Ž

It’s that simple.

A big smile and a firm handshake will tell people you are confident and comfortable with yourself.

Something else I always encourage people to do, SMILE πŸ˜‰

As if you needed another reason!

It does wonders for the body and soul!

Here’s another little nugget:

Self-Confidence is the key to happiness!πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

That’s right!  

I don’t believe I’ve ever met a person with amazing self-confidence who wasn’t happy?

Kind of impossible really?

In other words, self-confidence and happiness go hand-in-handπŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

I speak with so many people who are so unhappy.  πŸ™

Usually I can tell before they speak. Their body language tells it all.

They are unhappy usually with themselves or their lives, or both. 

Yet, when I give them some advice on how maybe they can change that, they invariably tell me WHY they cannot.πŸ€·β€β™€οΈπŸ€·β€β™‚οΈπŸ€·β€β™€οΈπŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ

And it usually starts with, “Patti I can’t because….fill in the blank.

Self-sabotage at its best.πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

So I say, if you really want to change your life; be happy, have amazing self-confidence, and live the life of your dreams. 

You will need to do what you have never done before!

“We don’t always know how to define confidence, but we always recognize it when we see it in a person; through a gesture, a smile, a word…in short, by watching the way he/she carries themselves.

It’s easy to spot someone with amazing self-confidence.

They way they carry themselves through life.

Their body language.

A big smile.

Radiating plenty of positive energy.☝☝☝

When I started my business seven years ago (I know I’ve said this before), I had no idea what I was doing, other than, I knew what I wanted to do. 

It takes a lot of courage AND self-confidence to do something you have no idea what you’re getting yourself into.

Like the saying goes, “it’s like jumping off the cliff with no parachute to catch you”, and you are basically hoping for the best!

Quite honestly, it takes major balls.

To come out of your comfort zone, and try something so out-of-the-box, it scares the hell out of you! 

It also gives you an amazing feeling.

So, if you are willing to come out of YOUR comfort zone, I highly recommend it!

Gaining amazing self-confidence doesn’t happen over-night like I said. 

Baby steps.

Everyday. Yes, everyday.

Not on the days you feel like it. Not “when” you feel like it.

Even on Sundays!

People with amazing self-confidence have no issue working whenever there is a need for it!

Me now!

And when YOU have amazing self-confidence, that’s how you’ll feel too!

Lastly, if you are having trouble gaining amazing self-confidence, book an appointment with me today!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ Be so good they can’t ignore you!


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