“How can I achieve my dreams?” (2.8.17)

A question from your friend The Universe: 
Just how much time do you spend thinking big, Patricia Bokowski?
I mean really, really BIG? 
Good, very good! Because that’s exactly how much of “it” you’re going to get! 
What a coincidence, 
  The Universe / How can I achieve my dreams?

Question: How can I achieve my dream?

Answer:  Do something different!

Unfortunately, that is not what most people do!

People usually start out doing one thing to get to their dream.

Then, when that doesn’t work, they give up.

Here’s the thing, you don’t give up the dream, you just have to try 39395950203 different ways to achieve it😩😩😩

“Do not wait; the time will never be ‘just right’.  Start where you stand, and work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools will be found as you go along.” / George Herbert

If you continually do the same thing day in and day out, you most like will keep getting the same results.πŸ€·β€β™€οΈπŸ€·β€β™€οΈπŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

So, if you are looking for different results, you need to do something differentπŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰πŸ‘‰

And, you can pretty much apply that theory to everything in your life.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Looking for love (in all the wrong places)?

Only you always go for the same type and it gets you nowhere and you wonder why?  

Maybe it’s time to go for a new type?  ❀❀❀ 

Always visit the same dating sites? 

How about trying a new one? 

There are a million of them these days. 🌈🌈🌈

Personally, I have changed my type many times over these past few years. 

Still haven’t found love yet.

But I’ve met some interesting people along the way!

Looking for a new job?

And not having much luck?  

Why not try a whole new approach?  

Just start applying to any job that sounds like it might be for you!

Too many look at a job description and think: Oh, I don’t have all the requirements?


Don’t make that decision!

Apply anyway!

You never know if the recruiter looks at your resume and thinks you might be a good candidate even if you don’t have all the requirements!

This is where you need to start thinking outside the box!


Do you have an idea for a business?

Only you keep saying to yourself you don’t know how to start. Opportunity dances with those already on the dance floor! (5.3.2020)

Hint:  just start!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

The point is, when we have an issue or problem in our lives, we seem to revert to the same way of thinking and the same way of doing, and then expect different results.πŸ™‹β€β™‚οΈπŸ™‹β€β™‚οΈπŸ™‹β€β™‚οΈ

Only, in order to get a better result, you need to think better!

Really, out-of-the-box kind of thinking!  πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

This is how you grow.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

How you come out of your comfort zone.

I know, scary stuffπŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘

And no one wants to do it!☹☹☹

“If you do what you’ve always done, you will always get what you’ve always got.  To get what you never had, you must do what you never did.”

Coming out of your comfort zone is necessary in order to live the life you are destined to live!

It is all part of the process.

For me personally, it has meant doing many “uncomfortable” things. 


Public Speaking.πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

Over the past 8 years, I have given quite a few speeches.

And each one of them has made me extremely uncomfortable.πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯

Yet, I get a tremendous rush when I am doing them. 


Extremely uncomfortable. 

There’s always that fear that someone is going to say your writing sucks πŸ™

Or say some other negative comment.

And yet, I do it anyway, it’s part of my business. 

And more to the point, I love doing it!

More to the point, now people pay me to write for THEM😍😍😍

That’s what I’m talking about😁😁😁


Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸

When I first started my business, I did a lot of networking,

Most of the time, I went by myself to these events.

Now, ask me if I was out of my comfort zone? 


I would literally sit in my car in the parking lot and would have to convince myself to go in. 

Prior to having my own business, I never went anywhere without someone else! 

Not these days.  πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

If there is an event I want to attend, I don’t even think about it.

I just go.

And, not two years after I started networking, people started paying me to network for them!

Now, if anyone had told me that was going to happen, I would have told them they were crazy.

STEP OUT of your comfort zone and amazing things WILL HAPPENπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

I always look at networking as somewhat of an adventure.

You never know who you are going to meet?

And you never know what’s going to happenπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Fortunately for me, I have met some pretty fantastic people over the years.

People I never would have met had I not dared venture out!

So, if you have never gone to a networking event, I highly encourage you to do so!

DON’T STOP BELIEVING in yourself and your abilities.

We are usually so quick to tell ourselves ‘we can’t do something’.

When it actuality, we usually can.

Sometimes we just have to look at it from a different angle🎯🎯🎯

So the next time you are trying to do something, instead of going left, go right.  

Instead of doing what you usually do, do somewhere different.😁😁😁

Think different

Insanity; doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” / Albert Einstein

Think about that☝☝☝

That’s a wrap!

Till next time,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!




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