“Don’t go for less. Get the BEST!” (10.4.18)

Well, Patricia Bokowski, enlightenment is kind of like flying for the first time without wings.
Of course, there’s the exhilaration, the happiness, and the intoxicating sense of freedom that’s almost indescribable.
But there’s also the subtle shock at what you now see as the inevitability of your accomplishment. The wonderment of how you hadn’t seen this so clearly before, mingled with acceptance. And the dim recognition that it’s part of some distant agreement you once made.
And, at last, as you come to your senses and finally think to gaze below, upon the tiny jewel you’ve called home for so long, you’re struck with a jolt as you see it so magically and effortlessly suspendedβ€”floatingβ€”in space, and realize, for the first time, that even there you were flying all along.
You soar,
  The Universe / Don’t Go For Less. Get the BEST!


That’s right.


Until the right person comes along.πŸƒβ€β™€οΈπŸƒβ€β™€οΈπŸƒβ€β™€οΈ

Don’t settle on someone because you’re lonely, or tired of being alone.

That is a shit reason to be with someone.

And you are better than thatπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


How often do you actually swipe right on any dating app these days?

Swiping right can lead to meeting some interesting people for sure!😳😳😳

Like the guy I dated until he told me he was a Vampire!!!

True! LOL.

Some days if feels like dating a unicorn is a better option!🀣🀣🀣

I recently wrote a blog on relationships and, quite frankly, received quite a lot of feedback from people.

Oddly enough, both good AND bad!

So many said;  it can’t possibly be THAT badπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

“They” obviously have no ideaπŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

As I’ve said previously, it’s a good thing I have a great sense of humor πŸ™‚

And a “never give up” kind of attitude. ☝☝☝

Seriously people, it’s a jungle out there.

Ask any person in the dating world, they’ll tell you! 

It seems to me, everyone I talk to, is in some kind of flux when it comes to their relationships these daysπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

They are either in a good one, but still not sure πŸ€·β€β™€οΈπŸ€·β€β™€οΈπŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

Because you know, there might be some one better OUT THERE πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ

In a bad one, but not sure if they should leave ;-(

Trying to get into oneπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

And/or, desperately trying to get out of one. πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈπŸ€¦β€β™€οΈπŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ

Oh, and we wonder why no one is happy these days “-(


Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸

Like it or not, we all carry a lot of baggageπŸ˜•πŸ˜•πŸ˜•

And the older we get, the more baggage we seem to bring; from relationship to relationship to relationship.

Is it any wonder the divorce rate is so highπŸ₯ΊπŸ₯ΊπŸ₯Ί 

Swipe right, swipe left, who knows anymore πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯πŸ˜₯

I certainly don’t want to be all doom and gloom when it comes to dating!

Plenty of people find love everyday <3❀❀❀

You just need to be open to it ❀❀❀

For today’s blog, I gathered a variety of quotes that sum up my thoughts on love and relationships…

“You Are Adored!”

“From my “Notes From The Universe on Love & Connection”

Here’s the thing.

You have the POWER.

Don’t just settle on what’s given to you.

YOU take what is yours.

And that includes who you love.

Please don’t settle on someone because they seem like a ‘good deal’.

Or, because you are lonely.

Maybe you’ve been single for a while and you’re tired of it.

That’s no reason to settle for anyone who isn’t the BEST person for youπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

YOU are pure magic AND deserve THE VERY BEST☝☝☝

Remember that!!!

“Appreciate the moment of a first kiss;

it may be the last time you own your own heart!”

Robert M. Drake / Word Porn

“You teach people how to treat you by what you allow,

what you stop, and what you reinforce!”

Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸



“Hubba Hubba”

From my “Notes From The Universe on Love & Connection 


Some times it’s just as simple as a conversation to start.

Don’t rush it.

Let it come.

It’s it’s right it will.

And if it’s not, let it go…


“We women, are hurricanes! 

We have to be, we handle everything! 

And the older we get, the more fierce we become.

So if you can’t handle a little rain, you can’t handle us!

NineFrogs Wisdom

I believe we have all been there ;-(


We have to learn to close some doors.

As in slam them shut and put a nail in itπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


“You’ll find what you seek!”

From my “Notes From The Universe on Love & Connection 

When you find the one that fires your flame!” / Word Porn


Question:  How many frogs do you have to kiss to find your Prince(s)?

Answer:  As many as it takes!


From the book “Promises From the Heart” <3


We’ve all been thereπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

That’s the crazy thing about love.

The things we tolerate.



 “I go where you go!”

“From my “Notes From The Universe on Love & Connection” 


I like to think so!

Ever meet someone new and you feel like you’ve known them forever😍😍😍

You make an immediate connection🎯🎯🎯

As if they were some long lost friendπŸ™‹β€β™€οΈπŸ™‹β€β™€οΈπŸ™‹β€β™€οΈ

Perhaps it is trueπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ


Like that☝☝☝

If it comes, great.

If it goes, let it πŸ‘‹πŸ‘‹πŸ‘‹

To everyone who is looking for love, here is my advice;  stop looking!   

Work on you!πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

And just when you think it will never happen again, it happens!

That’s the funny thing about love, it finds you when you least expect it <3

Loving you ❀❀❀

That’s a wrap!

Talk soon,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!





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