Dare to be whoever you want to be! (9.13.16)

I have to tell you, Patricia Bokowski, that one of the greatest things about being the Universe, is knowing absolutely everything.
Well, that and making dreams come true.
I also love being eternal… and having no limits.
Creating worlds simply with thought.
Knowing that reality is unfolding just exactly as it should.
Having it all, being it all, doing it all.
And I like being perpetually in love… and loved. 
How ’bout you, Patricia Bokowski? What’s your favorite thing about being the Universe? 
  The Universe / Dare to be whoever you want to be!


Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸

Dare to be whoever you want to be!πŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺπŸ’ͺ

Think about that?

What does that mean to you?

To me, it means I don’t have to be like everyone else.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

It means I give myself the freedom to think how I wantπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

To wear what I wantπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Do the kind of work that I want to do!

Spend my time with whoever I wantπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Not who other people think that I should be spending time withπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

And most importantly, be the kind of person I want to beπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

How I live my life these days☝☝☝

That’s why I keep my circle small, like real small.βœ”βœ”βœ”

Less people, less BS!

See, to be in my circle, you don’t have to think like me.

But, you also, can’t judge me because of the way I think.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

I was just speaking with my friend Wendy yesterday, and we were both saying how the reason we get along so great is because, we are both very open minded individuals, and we both can bounce ideas off of one another, and not worry about being judged!

If you have friends like that in your circle, consider yourself very lucky, because those are the kind of people you WANT in your circle!

That is so damn accurate☝☝☝

And the more entrepreneurs I speak with, that’s how they feel as well.

Someone told me around the time I started my business that entrepreneurship is a lonely business.

I didn’t really get that until I realized I was spending great amounts of time by myself.

Because as a solo entrepreneur, that’s how it works.

And you know what, I love it <3

It’s my new lifestyle.πŸ™‹β€β™€οΈπŸ™‹β€β™€οΈπŸ™‹β€β™€οΈ

People always ask me if I get bored?


I have more things to do now then ever before!

Being a business owner, especially my kind of business, I could sit at my desk 24/7.


Do you think when I started my business in 2012, people were like, ‘Wow, that’s awesome.’ or “I’m so happy for you Patti, you’re going to do just great.”

No, they were not!

If you are going to pick a different path then those around you, be prepared.

Because, being different requires thick skinπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

It also requires a heaping load of self-discipline, tremendous amounts of resilience, and enough self-confidence to take you from here to the moon!

True GREATNESS comes from taking chances that “most” others would not🎯🎯🎯

If you think about it, how are you going to know how GREAT you can actually be, if you don’t try new things and take chances?

Now that’s what you call out-of-the-box thinking!

Unfortunately, most people do not think that way.

Most people, like to just keep doing the same thing, over, and over, and over again.

Because it’s safe.Opportunity dances with those already on the dance floor! (5.3.2020)

I know, because I’m a great listener.πŸ™‹β€β™€οΈπŸ™‹β€β™€οΈπŸ™‹β€β™€οΈ

And I hear everything.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

One baby step at a time.

No one expects you to take on everything in one big chunk!

That’s how it works.πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

You know in your mind you CAN get to where you want to beπŸƒβ€β™€οΈπŸƒβ€β™€οΈπŸƒβ€β™€οΈ

Because, once you achieve something in your mind, your mind in turn, will start believing the solution to your problem into your life.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Because that’s what YOU are TELLING your mind☝☝☝

Sounds kind of crazy, only it works!πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

Dare to be whoever you want to be, and see how it changes your life. πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

To be honest, it wasn’t until I started my own business years ago that I started living life on my terms.

And giving myself permission to think different than everybody elseπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

Actually, it’s not that I wasn’t already thinking different, it’s just that my life wasn’t aligned with my thoughts.

Once I started my business, it all came together.πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

I believe that’s how it kind of works.

We need to be totally aligned with our thoughts AND actions for it all to come together.

I always knew there was something more OUT THERE for me.

I just wasn’t sure what THAT thing was.

Only once I started my business, and started down my own path, it all came together!


Kermit the Frog🐸🐸🐸

That’s so true☝☝☝

Life is way too short.✈✈✈

So spend it with the people you love, make memories and have wonderful adventures together.

Do the kind of work that sets your soul on fire, even if no one else “gets” it.

Remember that everyday IS THE SPECIAL OCCASION, so stop putting off until tomorrow.πŸ›‘πŸ›‘πŸ›‘

People always get that wrong.πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰

That’s so true!

When you are travelling on the road to success, you know it, you feel it.πŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆπŸ‘ˆ

It’s the “thing” that makes you get out of bed in the morning (when you really want to keep sleeping).

Because, having that burning passion is the thing that excites you, gets your mind whirling with ideas.πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯


And last but not least, on your quest to Dare to be whoever you want to be, make share you share your BIG BEAUTIFUL SMILE with the world.  

The world needs it more than ever  πŸ˜‰

Talk soon,

Till next time,

Patricia <3 always

NineFrogs ~ People will stare.  Make it worth their while!




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