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“You only look crazy until it works, then you’re a genius!” – NineFrogs
NineFrogs Fashion Finds!
Hey guys,
Here’s a little nugget of goodness.
Because whether you like it or not.
You are being judged everyday.
I have been writing about this.
For forever and a day.
You know?
You only get one chance to make a great first impression!
That’s it.
One!
And that’s before you open your mouth.
And say one word!
So I have BIG news to share!
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As many of my clients are still reluctant to go out shopping.
I decided to bring my favorite fashion finds to everyone.
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Full disclosure, I make a commission.
New items added daily.
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So, what does your look say about you?
Take one look on social media.
And you will see.
It’s all about your image.
Although many will disagree with me.
To which I will say.
Your personality is NOT.
The first thing people see.
Some may say it’s superficial.
Maybe it is?
Only that’s the way it is.
So you seriously have like a nano second.
To make a great impression!
And once again.
That is before you say a word.
That’s just how it works.
Remember the rules!
Self-Confidence:
Chances are.
You are most likely not going to achieve big things in life.
Not looking your best.
When you put your best “self” out into the world.
The world responds back in a positive fashion.
Like attracts like.👈👈👈
Career:
When was the last time.
You went on an interview and didn’t look your best?
Or attend a big meeting?
Meet a new client?
Go on a date? NineFrogs Daily QUOTE OF THE DAY:
How many men have a red tie?
The power color.
Or ladies.
An ensemble that says I’m ready?
A LBD perhaps?
Killer heels.
My favorite!✔✔✔
Who doesn’t love the UPS man.
When he makes deliveries?
Hello?
The world is as competitive as ever.
Maybe more so.👈👈👈
So, if you want to be seen.
And acknowledged for who you are.
Your image needs to meet the expectation!
You need to be in the drivers seat.
This year steering your career along.
I believe this year is going.
To be a game-changer for many of us.
Are you prepared?
Make this YOUR year to really shine!
Feeling Good:
Like the saying goes:
“Look good, Feel good”.
And vice-versa.
You are never going to feel good about yourself.
If you aren’t trying to look your best everyday.
Sorry.
That’s just the way it works!
“Dressing well is a form of good manners.” / Tom Ford
Dating:
I could actually write a book on this one.
For those of us (yes, myself included).
Out in the dating world.
You need to not only look your best.
But, you need to smile and show off your best!
I am still shocked.
When I look at the profile pictures that men put up!
Pictures with no smiles 🙁
Most definitely NOT my kind of man!
Not dressed properly, or not dressed at all!
Laying down in bed.
Which says to me.
You are too lazy to stand up and take a picture.
Group shots.
Shows lack of confidence.
Like why?
Wearing sunglasses.
He’s hiding something.
Or doesn’t want to be seen.✔✔✔
So who’s this working for?
Certainly not me!
Listen fellas.
You are not going to attract.
An amazing woman with pictures like that!
And to be fair.
It goes both ways as well.
I’ve heard men complain.
That women need to step up their game.
So now both sides know the deal.
I wish everybody well in the dating world!
Maybe this is YOUR year!
Self-Sabatoge:
I believe some people.
Go out of there way to not look their best.
It gives them an excuse to fail.
Which is not to say that dressing your best.
Will make everything in your life perfect.
We do live in reality.
Only if you start your day.
Looking and feeling your best.
There’s a better chance.
A much better chance.
That your day will go better.
And if you don’t believe me, try me!
Who’s Watching You:
Maybe it’s your kids.
Maybe it’s your boss?
Your followers?
You never know.
Who’s watching you.
And who you are inspiring.
I receive tons of e-mails.
On a daily basis.
From people (who I don’t know).
Telling me I inspire them.
With with my blogs and posts.
I’ve inspired people to do things.
They never thought they could do.
Things that were on their bucket list.
And I inspired them to do those things.
Yeah, me!
That’s an awesome feeling!
Can we talk about my hair for a second?
I can’t tell you how many compliments.
I get on my hair!
Yes, my hair.
Recently, one lady came up behind me and said:
“Damn, I wish I had your b*lls.”
I get that a lot.
Oh yes!
Women wishing they could cut their hair.
I tell them they could if they really wanted!
And yet.
They won’t.
So ladies let me remind you.
It’s YOUR hair.
And if you want to cut it.
Cut it!
Could be the THING.
That you’ve been looking for.
To save you!
I also get complimented on my smile.
The way I dress.
My infectious-positive energy.
Remember, you have no idea who’s watching you!
So don’t be afraid to be amazing!👈👈👈
Your Haters:
Think you don’t have haters, think again.
Oh, you have them. 👈👈👈
If you are out there trying to achieve a dream.
Working on your career or business.
Making waves in the universe as I like to say!
Seriously!
They are there in the wings.
Maybe you know them, maybe you don’t?
But rest assured, they are there.
And you know what?
Nothing makes them hate you more.
Than when they see you looking good.
Feeling good,
Doing good.
Inspiring others.
Taking risks.
And most of all.
BEING happy!
Take that haters!👈👈👈
The World Needs You:
And I don’t mean in the sense.
That the world needs everyone.
Dressing up (although it couldn’t hurt).
I mean.
The world needs more people inspiring other people.
The world needs a big.
Huge shot of INSPIRATION right now!
There is way to much negativity going on these days.
(and I’m not getting into that, you know the reasons).
So let’s inspire as many people as we can,.
Through whichever means works for us as individuals.
Whether it’s on a personal level.
Or a business level.
Through social media.
Or whatever works in your world?
How awesome would it be.
If you could make this world a little lighter!
A little brighter!
And remember.
Sharing your smile counts too!
NineFrogs Fashion Finds!
Have you heard?
I wrote a book!
Titled: “How One Landscaping Bill Changed Everything!”
Available now on Amazon in paperback and kindle.
Click the link to purchase your copy today: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C6P8FSG3
I cannot wait for you guys to read it!
Lastly, make sure you subscribe to my YouTube Channel – The Frog’s Den! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCliVgDpn8Yw3eVjiX_yI6Vw
Interested in working with me?
Awesome!
Shoot me an email today – pattib@ninefrogs.com!
That’s a wrap!
Talk soon,
Patricia <3 always
NineFrogs ~ People will stare. Make it worth their while!
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